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Jalisa came in the room riding her IV pole like a chariot. She was in
her element that day—the make-up, the nail polish, and the girl-stuff.
For lipstick, she chose bright cherry red and kissed everyone on the
cheek leaving little lip marks on their faces. Then she prissed around
in her crown and queen’s robe, with the IV pole trailing behind, waving
and blowing kisses to onlookers. She posed for a picture in remembrance
of that day and frolicked out the room with red lips and a glistening
tiara donning her hairless brown head. When Jalisa died a few months
later, the hospital staff explained she didn’t have much hanging on her
wall, but she did have the picture form Queen for a Day’s visit. Jalisa
embodies the reality that Queen for a Day may seem trivial—just putting
make-up and nail polish on cancer patients and letting them play dress
up—but compared to what they go through, that special treatment means
the world to them.
So many times, illnesses can hurt a patient
psychologically as much as it can physically. Children can’t help but
wonder what their chances are, if there even is a chance. They forget to
be kids and resort to the isolation the disease offers as the
alternative. When Queen for a Day comes to the hospital, we give the
patients a reason to be a kid again. We host tea parties for girls to be
pampered with makeovers, manicures, and their very own coronation
ceremony. Each patient receives a real tiara donated by beauty queens
across the nation! When a child smiles in the mirror after her makeover
and laughs, she has defeated her illness. The Queen for a Day crown
symbolizes victory as she is a champion over her illness.
For the boys, we encourage the
qualities of bravery and courage through the Heroes program based on
firefighters and police officers. We invite local heroes to attend the
event to tell heroic stories and develop a friendship with the patients.
Patients receive firefighter hats, badges, and other hero-themed gifts.
Heroes is a recent addition to the Queen for a Day program, but has
proved popular among patients, hospitals, and communities across the
nation.
Jenna Edwards, founder |